Similarities and Differences

As we begin a new guidance unit, we will be looking at commonalities among people as well as differences. How children feel about themselves will ultimately determine how they live their lives and how they interact with one another. Here are some ways that caregivers can help children believe in themselves, resist negative influences and be tolerant of differences.

• Teach your children about your family, culture, and community. Help your children take pride in their heritage.
• Promote diversity. Stress that differences between people make life more interesting.
• Encourage your children by recognizing their interests and accomplishments.
• Listen to your children's opinions and help them to see other points of view.
• Point out to your children when a particular group is being stereotyped. Tell your children stereotyping is not fair. Explain why stereotypes are inaccurate and encourage discussion.
• Remember that you are a role model.
• Your children need to know that you find discriminatory behavior unacceptable. Children will look to adults on how to confront prejudice and discrimination. Encourage children to create positive change.